When a woman says: ENOUGH!, it doesn't mean she hates men.
She isn't saying it because she never wants to love again. And it certainly doesn't mean she no longer needs anyone.
She's simply tired of always being the one who understands everyone else.
The one who waits. The one who adjusts, takes care of everything. The one who swallows her feelings. The one who gives yet another chance. The one who finds an explanation even for things that stopped having any acceptable explanation a long time ago.
And then, when she finally stops doing all of that, comes the familiar sentence:
"You've changed."
Of course I've changed.
Because the woman I used to be spent far too long trying to put up with everything.
She said yes far too many times when she wanted to say no.
She had her feelings and decisions questioned far too many times.
She stayed far too long in places she should have left ages ago.
She invested far too much energy in other people's lives, leaving barely anything for her own.
Of course I've changed.
I no longer want to please everyone.
I no longer want to save everyone.
I no longer want to prove how much I can endure.
And above all, I no longer want to pretend to be someone I'm not just to make someone stay by my side.
If that's what you call change, you're right.
I've changed.
Because one day, I finally said it too:
ENOUGH!
And do you know what happened next?
The world didn't fall apart.
Instead, all that enormous amount of energy I'd been using to keep everyone else's life in order finally began to become available again.
And there was some left for me, too.
For what I want. For what I love. For everything I still want to experience.
ENOUGH is the end of something.
And that's exactly where your own life finally begins.
You can say goodbye to the negative feelings that have accumulated inside you with the Emotion Transformer.
And then go! Live! Love! Laugh! Try new things! Visit places you've never been before! Do what you've kept putting off because of your fears!
After all, that's exactly why you put those old burdens down. 😁
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