We're evolving, we're evolving...

For some people, it is only now becoming clear how much a friendship or the bond of being "of the same blood" is really worth to them. Some are willing to cheat their own relatives for just a few thousand forints. Others get offended and start keeping their distance simply because you had the courage to point out that they had taken advantage of you.

If you've also just been hit in the gut by people you thought would stand by you, know this: you're not the only one sitting there in disbelief.

You have always given people your trust.

You simply see the human being. When you see that someone needs help, you don't start calculating whether it's worth your while.

You help. With a kind word, through your work, by offering opportunities, sometimes even by giving someone a home.

The real story begins when you discover that what you considered simple decency does not necessarily appear in the other person's decisions.

You don't expect someone to owe you for the rest of their life just because you once helped them.

They don't have to swear eternal loyalty to you. They can argue with you. They can tell you that you're wrong. They can even walk away.

But there is a line.

I WILL NOT SELL YOU OUT. I WILL NOT BETRAY YOU.

I won't exploit you for a few thousand forints.

I won't deceive you just because it means I get to keep a little more for myself.

I won't use against you what I know about you only because you once let me get close.

I won't join forces with someone behind your back just because I stand to gain something from it.

And if you're already alone, I won't trample on you one more time.

This is not some kind of spiritual expectation.

This is decency. Integrity. Character.

And eventually, you're no longer even grieving the people you've lost.

Because by then, you've also seen the pattern.

You've seen how they use one person after another. Sometimes hiding behind jokes, sometimes wearing an understanding expression, sometimes playing the crying victim.

Always a different role. Always a different person. Yet, in the end, the same story.

As long as there's something left to suck out, the leech stays.

And that's what delivers a devastating blow to your image of humanity.

Because you entered these relationships with the same standards you live by.

You assumed that when the moment came and money, self-interest, wounded pride or personal gain were placed on one side of the scales, and on the other stood a person connected to you through years, shared work, friendship, family, help or love, something inside that person would speak up:

I just can't do this to them.

And when that doesn't happen, time and time again, of course you begin to ask yourself:

What am I failing to see?

But you're not sitting there in disbelief because your crystal ball was cloudy.

You saw it.

You simply stayed silent and put up with it for far too long.

You thought that if you didn't get involved, if you kept the peace, if you remained "reasonable" with them, if you didn't give back the same treatment you received, then one day they would realise that there was another way to live.

After all, they can see it.

They can see that it's possible to make money without harming others. You can argue with someone without betraying them. You can feel offended without seeking revenge. You can get ahead in life without stepping on someone who stood beside you just yesterday.

You thought leading by example mattered.

And it does.

But only to those in whom it resonates.

Because someone who is willing to do anything for money is truly capable of selling out a friend today, their partner tomorrow, and then the next person after that.

On a small scale and on a large one...

There was a first time when they knew what they were doing was dishonest, but they simply didn't care.

Everything that followed became easier...

Perhaps that is what you failed to recognise in time.

Not who you should have trusted.

But the fact that not everyone cares about the example you set.

Some people learn from it.

Others simply calculate how much they can make out of you.

And naturally, someone will quickly come along to offer you a spiritual explanation, too.

Your vibration must be too low. You attracted exactly what is within you. The outside world is merely reflecting you. Keep working on yourself! It's all just an illusion.

Thank you very much. 😄

I wouldn't throw these statements around and apply them to every human story without actually understanding the situation.

(Grounding is a wonderful topic, by the way.)

You can still ask yourself what you might have overlooked!

Where did you notice something earlier but fail to take it seriously? What did you explain away? When did you choose to believe what someone said rather than pay attention to how they treated other people? Was there something you had already seen long ago, without ever imagining that one day you would find yourself sitting in that very same chair?

Because you didn't want to interfere or hurt anyone.

I know you don't want to turn your back on people. You don't want to make them pass trust tests before allowing them to get close. And above all, you don't want to become a suspicious person simply because others have abused what you gave them.

You don't want to lose your ability to trust.

But you can keep your eyes open.

And if you're sitting there right now, nursing a fresh blow to the stomach, trying to piece together how the person you considered your friend, relative or partner just yesterday could have done something like this, don't immediately start looking for the fault in yourself!

Just because you trusted someone doesn't mean you were the one who deceived them.

Let's not confuse the two!

Is it Uranus, Pluto or some other planet bringing all of this to the surface right now?

Quite possibly.

But a lack of integrity? Absolutely not.

Because the position of the stars does not decide what you do when you have to choose between your own interests and another human being.

The planets may simply illuminate things. What they reveal is something you have already brought about through your own actions.

Between Heaven and Earth,

Dajbukát Ildikó

Photo: Pinterest

spiritenergy.hu